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Fitting in With the Local Culture
If your future plans call for travel to unfamiliar lands, do a little homework before you leave. Some knowledge about the local customs can come in handy, even if you'll be traveling within the United States. If you're traveling abroad, learning a little about the local culture (especially attitudes towards women) and staying alert while exploring will not only increase your enjoyment of the experience, it might just keep you safer. - Start by taking note of the behavior and dress of women around you. Do your best to blend in, and avoid calling unwanted attention to yourself. Also, be aware that, in some countries, women with Western dress and manners are assumed to be sexually available. If you are not seeking this kind of attention, it is best to indicate so immediately and clearly when approached. A loud, firm "No!" in English or the local language will usually be understood.
- Be extremely careful when meeting men in a non-business setting. Simply agreeing to a private meeting could be misinterpreted, especially when there is a language or cultural barrier. If you are only interested in friendship, make this clear from the start.
- The common sense you apply to situations back home should still hold true when traveling--avoid dimly lit areas, walk with an air of confidence and purpose, and be aware of what's going on around you at all times. Stick close to other women in public areas. Listen to your intuition when faced with a compromising situation. If you need assistance, try to request it of other women.
- It's great to make friends while on the road, but do be discreet. Beware of letting strangers know that you're traveling alone, that your apartment or house back at home is empty, etc. And be sure to learn as much as possible about the place you're going to before you go--even destinations within the United States.
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