August 25, 2004
As any new parent can attest, traveling isn't the same once you have children. In short, the kid changes everything. Not being a parent myself, I thought it only fair to try traveling with borrowed kids (legally borrowed, I'd like to add) to see exactly what it entails. I have two things to say on this topic. One: Thank goodness for being a beloved godparent--all the fun, none of the mess. Handing over a child mid-meltdown is a joy second to none. And two: If you thought packing was challenging before, you're in for a rude awakening. After toting toddlers around I've deduced that a trip to the grocery store or even the playground can be considered traveling.
In a way I can understand the new-parent mandate that others should come to visit the new little bundle of joy, not vice-versa. But then how do you get out and see the world? That would be like spending your entire life on a diet and only watching cooking shows--every so often we all need a cookie.
It's an adjustment to begin traveling with kids. Say "so long" to spontaneity where the kids are involved and get into planning. It's crucial. Like many families you'll probably find yourself vacationing at the same time each year. Depending on the age of your children, you'll juggle trips around their school vacations and your work schedules. The great news is that families have been known to travel and have fun--you just have to prepare.
You need to select your destinations, even your hotel property and room, to ensure you're someplace family-friendly. A recent family poll by Travelocity found that amusement parks continually rate at the top. Three out of four families have been to one, and the majority of family travelers say they got a good value there.
Speaking of value, you'll also have to watch the budget. It can balloon with more people, but there are ways to save. Look for hotel specials and places where kids can eat free.
And this leads me to another point on that topic, as we head towards fall, I know most people are sorry to see summer go, but not me. And it's not that I don't love summer because I absolutely do. But for most people, especially people with families, summer is the time to travel. So for me, fall is the time when the airports have more space, and hopefully the planes, hotels, and especially those amusement parks will too!
I consider myself a big little kid, so now, with Labor Day approaching and the kids heading back to school, it's prime time to ditch my baby-sitting duties and get on the road. Sure, I'll be sharing it with savvy families who realize this too, but we'll all enjoy lower rates, less crowding, and shorter lines. Everyone wins. Don't stop traveling just because you've started a family. On the contrary, start your travel planning and watch the world open up.
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